I just finished this book by Tom Golden. I can't say enough about it. In terms of understanding boys, Tom boils down the big points of relating to boys in about 100 pages.
When I used to co-sleep with my babies, I adored waking up to the puff-puff sound of their breathing.
One thing that Tim and I started doing a few months ago is movie night for just us, no kids.
It's been five years since we had a new baby in the house, and in the years since, we've dialed in a few things that make our lives as parents more satisfying and basically more sane.